Tuesday, September 30, 2025
Trip to the Sequoias 1988
Monday, September 29, 2025
Trips with Alan
And we made a few trips specifically to see Cirque du Soleil. The first one of their shows that we saw was before we were married, in Biloxi, Mississippi, at the Beau Rivage casino. The show was called Alegria. We went to that same show again and took my sons. We loved that show so much that we decided to see as many Cirque du Soleil shows as we could manage to get to. We went to one in Atlanta, which was performed under a tent, and we took Alan’s mother. I can’t remember which show it was. We went to one in New Orleans, and one in Pensacola, Florida. In the summer of 2002 we went on a trip out west and saw the 3 or 4 Cirque du Soleil shows that were playing in Las Vegas at that time.
I think altogether we saw 9 of their shows — Saltimbanco, Alegria, Mystere, O (which involved water and diving and swimming stunts), Quidam, LaNouba, Dralion, Varekai, and Crystal. If we had the money and the energy, we would go now and see all the rest of their shows. Most of them are new, since the last one we saw.
Saturday, September 27, 2025
Trip to the Ozarks 1960
The first “big” trip I took would have been when I was 5 years old. I went with my mother and grandmother (Cleffie) and my grandmother’s sister (Ruby) on a car trip from Michigan to Arkansas and Missouri. I think the whole trip took about a week. I have a few specific memories from that trip.
First off, I remember getting carsick. We were in the Ozark mountains, and the roads have a lot of curves and ups-and-downs. I was in the back seat of the car with my mother, and suddenly I was vomiting. I don’t remember if I felt nauseated ahead of time or not — if so, I guess I didn’t mention it. I don’t remember anybody getting very upset about it. My grandmother was the one who said it was car sickness — which was a relief to me, because it let me know that I didn’t have a stomach virus or something that was going to keep me sick for the rest of the trip.
The next memory I have from that trip is staying overnight with “Aunt Luveenee” (her name was actually Luvena or Luvenia, but I didn’t know that at the time). She had a small house. I don’t remember much about the house itself. What I remember is when it came time to get ready for bed, my mother took me outside in the dark to use the “bathroom” — it was the first time I had ever heard of, much less used, an outhouse.
In Missouri we went to visit Aunt Ruby’s daughter Oma Dell and her family. Oma Dell’s daughter Donna Kay was familiar to me. They had come to Michigan a couple times to visit Aunt Ruby. Donna and I were about the same age, and we had already become friends even though we lived 500 miles apart. One thing I remember about our visit there was that the kids — Donna and her brother Mike and I — were eating supper at a card table in the kitchen, and the grownups ate in the dining room. We had green peas on our plates, which we didn’t like. So Donna Kay showed me a little trick … we scraped the peas off and hid them under our plates. It didn’t work, of course. Well, my parents never were “clean your plate or no dessert” parents. But Donna’s were, I guess. I don’t remember what the consequences were for our little trick. I don’t remember having any particular trauma about it. It just seems like a funny memory to me, that we thought hiding our peas under our plates would work.
Friday, September 26, 2025
Road Trip with Cleffie, Wathada, and Oma Dell
Yesterday's post about the PJ party was only one part of a road trip I made with my mother (Wathada), grandmother (Cleffie), and my mother's cousin (Oma Dell). I think this was in 1992. Mom had flown from California where she lived to Michigan where Grandma lived. Then they drove to Arkansas where Oma Dell lived, picked her up and drove to Alabama where I lived. Then we drove back to Michigan. I can't remember the exact logistics of the rest of the trip, but somehow or another we all got back to our respective homes.
Here are a few pictures from that trip.
Wathada, Oma Dell, and me, at my house
Thursday, September 25, 2025
Pajama Party
Once upon a time, in 1992, My mother, my grandmother, and my mother's cousin were at my house visiting when the electricity went out. There's no narrative, really. The pictures tell the story: Just four grown women in the pitch dark, armed with flash cameras, and a half-hour of hysterical laughter.
Wednesday, September 24, 2025
Trips with Grandma and Grandpa Thomas
My Thomas grandparents made a trip to Ohio every summer to visit Grandma’s relatives, and they always took me with them. We drove the old highways — Grandpa didn't like to drive on the interstate — and we stayed in little roadside motels, which are pretty much extinct now. Once we got to Ohio, we stayed at Aunt Faun’s house. She was my grandmother’s favorite cousin, and she and her husband lived in a farmhouse a few miles outside of London, Ohio. Aunt Faun and I had the same birthday, and we sent birthday cards to each other every year until she died. Aunt Faun's husband, Bob McDonald, was a gentle giant of a man. He was so calm and soft-spoken that it was hard for me to believe he was a prison guard.
Another memory from one of our Ohio trips was that I went with one of Aunt Faun's nieces and a friend of hers on a car ride to Columbus. They were teenagers. I don't remember why we were going to Columbus, but what I do remember is that they stopped and picked up a young man who was hitchhiking. I don't know how old I was at the time, but I was old enough to know that it was not a good idea to pick up a hitchhiker.
Another relative we visited was Grandma's uncle Earl Parker and his wife Flossie. They lived in Waverly, Ohio. Uncle Earl was a judge.
I also made at least one trip with Grandma and Grandpa up to the Mackinac bridge and across the upper peninsula of Michigan to the straits of Sault Ste. Marie where we watched a ship go through the locks from Lake Huron to Lake Superior. (I'm pretty sure we went over into Canada once, too. It was easy back then. You didn't have to have a passport or anything.)
Tuesday, September 23, 2025
Tour '76
Yesterday I thought I would make a post about trips that I've taken in my life. Much to my surprise, though, I've taken a whole lot more trips than I realized -- more than would fit in one blog post. So I guess I'll do them one at a time, in no particular order. Today's post is about the only time I've ever been to Europe.
The Harding College A Cappella Chorus took a European tour every few years, and I was fortunate to be able to go with them right after my graduation in 1976. We went to Germany, France, and Spain. Unfortunately, I did not take a camera with me on that trip. I can't even believe I did that! It didn't even cross my mind to buy a cheap disposable camera while we were there. (Remember those? You could buy one in any drugstore at that time. Take the pictures, leave the film in the camera and turn the whole thing in to get the pictures developed.) So the pictures I'm going to post here are downloaded from other sources.









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